Three seasons in one day

…almost like the song. Sorry to disappoint but even when living in Paris one has to take some time to sleep, do dishes, laundry and clean the house.  This week-end was one of those for me. The weather was appropriately unhelpful, too: weather in Paris is really fickle, you can get sunshine, rain, more sunshine, more rain….on the very same day.

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Next week-end, however, I should have more exciting updates, as I am going into the heart of Provence  to see the famed lavender fields in full bloom. I promise lots and lots of photos upon my return! Till then, a little preview…here is my little French pet!

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In And Out of Place

Interesting read….

Landscapes of Cairo

This week features a piece by Sara Salem, a PhD scholar based in Cairo.

Throughout my life I have gone through different phases in terms of relating to where I am from or where I belong. Growing up in Zambia with an Egyptian father and Dutch mother meant that a restless feeling of not quite being settled was always part of my life. During my teenage years I remember this expressing itself as a dramatic quest to find out “who I am” and “where I belong”—something that should probably be attributed to the fiction I liked to read or drama shows I liked to watch rather than some universal human need to belong somewhere. I quickly grew out of that and the question didn’t seem to matter so much anymore. When I was 16, I moved to Egypt, when I was 22, I moved to the Netherlands, and for now…

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Encounter on a plane

You know you’re travelling too much when your own apartment feels more like a hotel.
I am back home, beyond exhausted, and yet, cannot sleep. Too much adrenaline, I suppose.
After six flights within the last week- two of which, granted, were self-induced – I feel ready to stay put on solid ground for a while. Whether that is achievable or not is largely beyond my control.

However, I thought I balance my usual complaining and outline a brief episode that speaks to the benefits of frequent travel. You see, one good thing about flying often is that it presents the opportunity of some interesting, totally random encounters. The other day, for example, on my way to Copenhagen, I found myself seated on the plane next to an eccentric-looking lady, who I could tell hated flying just as much as I do, by the way she was grimacing at every turn of the plane.

….Turbulence hits and we’re suddenly best friends – after-all, this might be our very last human encounter!

It turns out this very funny lady used to live in Rome (my favourite place on Earth)…and Paris, and Madrid. She tells me she hates flying, despite having had 20 years of flying “three times a week, to the point that I never was quite sure where I am”! Interesting…
Then, in the course of conversation I hear she hates North America (“plastic land with plastic people’), even though she had some success there ‘in films’….She doesn’t like the Danish much, either, even though she’s one of them, because “they pretend they’re so happy, but then why do they drink so much, why take drugs and have such high suicide rates?”. The lady is certainly opinionated, and caustic enough for me to take a real interest in.

It turns out this lady was, way back when, the most famous Danish model ever, former Miss Universe and famous throughout Europe in the 60s and 70s. She had lived her life on different continents, had fun with famous people (how many people could say they got wined and dined by Cary Grant?) and subsequently retired into a sedate family life back in Denmark.

Needless to say, I only half-believed the story. But then I asked her name, googled it later at the hotel, and, sure enough, everything she said is all very true. I’m not going to put her name here, since I am a proponent of privacy, so you’ll just have to trust me on this.

Interestingly, she said something that I’ll try and remember and take into account from now on. When talking about careers, she said the most important thing and the key to all success is to believe in yourself AND share that belief with the world. She said one’s career is like a shop: if you don’t invite people in and show them all the wonderful things you have, they may never think of buying them, and might walk past the shop altogether. So you have to believe in yourself and make sure you engage people to also believe in you. It my sound corny, but I think this is actually very good advice. And here I am, all prejudiced and thinking all models are, by definition, brainless.

Anyway, the whole thing got me thinking about how travel can enrich one’s life beyond the joy of seeing beautiful things. And how such seemingly random encounters can shape your own life in unexpected ways.

For example, two years ago, while travelling through Italy, while in Verona, one morning I went down for breakfast in my hotel. At an adjoining table there was this older man (in this 80s), who was pensively listening to the opera being played in the background and tearing up with emotion. We got to talking about opera (the famous Arena di Verona festival was on) and I found out he was originally from Italy but living in Canada. And that he adored opera and, every year, he would come to Verona for a week during the festival. He had been doing it for 20 years in a row!!! At the time I thought to myself only someone wealthy would be able to afford keeping such a tradition. But life is funny that way, and this year I’ll be attending my third Arena di Verona festival myself, while the lottery is still beyond my reach. So a random travel encounter and hearing about someone else’s tradition, combined with some unexpected twists of my own fate, led to my adopting that extravagant tradition, myself.

I guess the point to this post is that travel, whether for business or pleasure, brings the opportunity to meet people who can, completely unexpectedly, surprise, and help you enrich your own life. And that perhaps all these random encounters are not that random at all, but rather little signs from fate telling you that there is a purpose to all human interaction, and that sometimes the most inconsequential encounters can have a profound effect on one’s life. Which may also mean that those people who stay put and never leave their small geographical comfort zone may miss out completely on this whole other layer of experience that is, in theory, open to all.

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Portugal in review: a former empire with no airs

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Portugal used to be an empire, a pioneer of colonization forging its way beyond Europe and spreading its power across the globe to India, Mozambique, Zanzibar, parts of East Africa and Brazil. Ruling remote parts of the world from the 15th to the late 19th century, Portugal was then a small country with a big ego whose people went out and acquired a lot of power and wealth.
But then, times change, the reins of power change hands, and, as was the case with other empires, Portugal eventually lost its influence and retired its grasp on the colonies.
The 20th century has not been kind on Portugal, and, though preserving some vestiges reminding one of the country’s former glory days, Portugal has, sadly, descended into being one of the poorer, more modest European Community member nations at the moment.

In fact, Portugal has had a few bad hundreds of years, and it shows. Once the European noble, it is now bourgeois but poor. Modern Lisbon, for instance, is a charming city, but no longer impressive. The charm rests in the faded old buildings and the vestiges of yesteryear, or in those monuments commemorating the country’s great explorer days. Once out of the confines of Lisbon proper, the suburbs look depressing, brimming, as they are with side-by-side communist-looking buildings or abandoned little houses. Passing through, one can sense that people are struggling economically. The modern features about Lisbon, such as the good roads and the up to date and very efficient transportation system, are, I suspect, all new post-European Community adherence investments, i.e., paid for with the resentful Germans’ Euro.
In a way, it’s sad, but it’s not unexpected, out of order, or surprising. It is life: as people are born, grow up, live, thrive, get old and die, so do empires. Europe is a living cemetery for these and examples abound: Greece is but a ghost of the ancient Greek civilization, and Italy, much as I love it, is but far away from the Roman Empire days.

As for society, the older generations of Portuguese appear typical Mediterranean in many ways: somewhat old fashioned, family oriented, loving a good meal, a good song and party, not terribly efficient and not exactly driven. Old ladies dressed in black can be seen walking around Lisbon unhurriedly, speaking to a still quite traditional Mediterranean society, where until recently a woman’s journey included marriage, producing children, and living as a mourning widow for half her life. Old men, on the other hand, collectively enjoy lazy afternoons in the public squares, talking to friends, drinking a bit (or more), playing at the remainder if their lives in an untroubled way. Younger generations wear jeans, T-shirts and skimpy tops, yet appear to pair up early and have kids quite young. Overall, there is no sign of a dramatic break with the old traditions and way of life, no whiff of rebelling agains the old ways, no austere feminism or metrosexual trend in sight.

However, one gets the feeling that the younger Portuguese want to get on with life and forge their own identity despite their current hardships. Those who can are going out to get jobs in Germany, UK, or wherever jobs are available. For those who choose to stay home, tourism is nowadays a major source of EC money and the locals appear to have adapted to this reality: in Lisbon, almost everyone in customer service jobs speaks surprisingly good English. And some German. And some French. They milk tourists kindly and politely but efficiently, and have some good political skills to do it.

For example, with the Football championships currently ongoing, most restaurants have put up a TV on their patios. This means that in the evening each restaurant houses a mini-war in progress. Different tables, different favourites, so what is the staff to do!? Which side to take!? Here’s an example, from the restaurant downstairs: the other night England was playing Uruguay. A few tables outside had English customers, while a few more tables inside had Spanish/French/Portuguese customers. An English guy asks the waiter: “who do you want to win?” The waiter says: “England, of course! I am siding with Europeans, so since Portugal is out, I would hope another European team will win”. OK. A few hours later England had lost, and the poor drunk Englishmen at the table left the restaurant. Now here come out the Latin supporters (I.e., Spanish /French/Portuguese) from inside the restaurant screaming “Uruguay! Uruguay!”. So, guess what the waiter is doing next? Screaming alongside the customers “Uruguay! Uruguay!”. Sod the Europeans, let’s be happy for the winners. I am sure he got a good tip (along with laryngitis) and while this may not give him a lot of integrity, it gives him an edge in the race for survival.

And if this is anything to go by, I think Portugal will survive this recession. Who knows, in a few years, with a new generation of younger Portuguese fluent in multiple languages and educated abroad, the country might eventually even bounce back from the current ‘poor man of Europe’ status and succeed in beating the Northern Europeans at their own game.

Overall, what I really admired about the Portuguese is their realism. The Empire is long dead and Portugal is now struggling economically, so there’s no point in putting on airs. Tourists may be dressing badly and talking loudly but they pay, so treat them well enough to get them to return. They’re on holiday, having fun, so why not return their smile? Providing good customer service does not humiliate and demean one’s worth as an individual.

Perhaps I would be less excited about these things if I were not on a plane going back to the centre of tourist-loathing, the one and only Paris, where the vast majority, especially those in customer service, view any poor tourist as a bug that is not worthy of breathing the rarified air of the French Capital.
Aahhh, to come home 🙂

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Beautiful Sintra

A small town just outside of Lisbon, Sintra houses the former summer residences of the Portuguese ex-royals. I visited the Pena Palace, but there is also a Sintra Palace.
I got there soaking wet, after walking through the torrential rain this morning (left my umbrella in the luggage back at the hotel)! But it was worth it, for the surrounding forest and the scenery are so beautiful.

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On the way back to the station I also briefly visited the Moorish Castle (self-explanatory) which is really in ruins but impressive enough for the huge megalithic like stones that surround it. Reminded me of Egypt!

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Finally, Sintra, a pretty little town with colourful houses and a spa like feel. This time, unfortunately, I only really saw it from the car. Next time!

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Now, if you’d excuse me, my cab (which has wifi available) just arrived in front of my building. I have to dash home for the “pack and unpack” show. It’s midnight and I need to get ready for Copenhagen again! I’ll post my impressions of my trip to Portugal from the plane tomorrow! Au revoir!

The first day of summer in Belem

Belem is Lisbon’s historical area, home of the Torre, Lisbon’s very symbol, Jeronimos Monastery, burial site of Vasco da Gama, as well as the Presidential Palace and a number of museums.

Somewhat removed from central Lisbon and beyond the impressive 25 de Abril Bridge, the Golden Gate of Lisbon, the area spreads out alongside the bank of river Tagus.

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The historical significance of Belem has roots in Portugal’s glorious days, when explorers would embark on their daring voyages of discovery from the very spot.

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First stop, Jeronimos Monastery, an impressive example of what, as I learned today, is the Manueline style of architecture. The cloisters, in particular, are truly spectacular.

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Dating from the very beginning of the 1500s and built over an older monastery serving navigators in the age of exploration, it commemorates Vasco da Gama’s successful voyage to India. His tomb can be found on the side of the entrance, all solemn yet ornate.

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The motif echoes themes of navigation, but the sarcophagus itself rests on depictions of lions!

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The next notable historical building in Belem, the Tower of Belem, has come to symbolise Lisbon and Portugal itself. A UNESCO heritage site, the tower was built in 1515 as fortifications to the port. Back in the day, it was the last sight of dry land for sailors heading into the seas. Beautifully ornate in the same Manueline style, it now provides some stunning views of the Targus, Belem, and Lisbon, and offers tourists a brief glimpse into what was once the hay day of the Portuguese maritime empire.

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Birthday at Castelo de São Jorge -Lisbon

Here we are, a ‘year’ later ….To all those who enriched my day with birthday wishes …Muito obrigada!

I chose to spend the day at Castelo de São Jorge, like the princess that I am! It’s a beautiful spot high up on one of Lisbon’s hills, in fact, it’s the city’s highest point.

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Built In 11th century as a Moorish fortification upon 8th century unidentified ruins, it went on to become a royal residence in the 13th. Incredibly, it managed to survive the earthquake of 1755, which destroyed most of Lisbon, went through a military garrison phase in the 1800s and finally, in the 20th century it was retired to a museum and tourist spot. Nowadays, it is Lisbon’s most visited attraction, alongside Belem Tower. It offers a wonderful vista and the opportunity of a relatively secluded strole.

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And so, from high above Lisbon and a place that made it through 1000 years I made it through yet another travelling birthday!

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Getting ready for the land of Fado

Getting ready for the land of Fado and another candle on the cake. For the first time in years, I am taking a trip with no idea and no expectation of what the place might be like. I only know that I’ll come back officially and numerically one year older. Leaving straight after work to make sure I have the full birthday in the sun! It better not be raining, as currently predicted.

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Incidentally, who knew birthday celebrations had such a rich history? All the way to ancient Egypt.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/11/11/history-of-birthdays_n_4227366.html

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Up in the air aka Packing for Copenhagen

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Those who know me ( but who else would be reading this?) know I go to Copenhagen A LOT. In fact, a lot more than even the biggest fan of Copenhagen should. The all too frequent trek to CPH, as my collegues like to call it, is part of my job. An unavoidable part of my job, I should say, for I take little to no pleasure in these trips. It is, by no means, the fault of the city, which is, overall, quite nice, peaceful in comparison with Paris, and oh sooo clean. But business travel and leisure travel are as night and day, and while I love the latter I’ve grown to dread the former.

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The typical trip is as follows: wake up –> go to work: work a long full day –> leave work for the airport: do last minute work AT the airport –> fly in fear for your life –> land at close to midnight –> taxi to hotel –> get to the hotel where everyone on staff knows you by name–> reach your room: home away from home –> fall into comatose sleep\endure sleeplessness due to excess adrenaline–> wake up at 7:15 and go to work in the CPH office–> back to CPH airport (another home away from home) –> fly in yet more fear for your life—> reach home exhausted, close to midnight –> fall asleep like a log\suffer insomnia due to exhaustion–> wake up at the usual time and go to work again.
Of course, there is the alternative of catching the morning 6:10 flight to CPH and getting back to Paris at 11 pm, but, frankly, getting up at the crack of dawn or before is not my idea of fun. Nor is an 18 hour work-day.

So, for those who envy my living in Paris…think again! I only live in Paris part time, really.

So what about Copenhagen? Well, other than from cab to or from the airport, I have only seen the city once, in my very first months on the job, when I stayed on for the week-end.
It’s a nice city, probably very liveable. The central area is rather small, the main shooping street pretty, the famous Nyhavn canal beautiful but really tiny.

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To be honest, Copenhagen feels a little provincial – this is not a metropolis: the current population stands at about 500,000 inhabitants. Everything is orderly and feels relaxed, not necessarily happy, but satisfied.
The one thing that stands out is the Danes’ passion for design: there are lots of little furniture design shops all over town. The Danish design style is simple, streamlined, progressive yet safe. Difficult to explain, really.

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Denmark, in general, like all the Sandinavian peninsula, favours minimalism: apartments are sparsely furnished, restaurants have long communal tables, locals bike everywhere using the dedicated bike lanes that you will find on every single street, complete with stop signs and, apparently, subject to ‘biking rules’. I don’t know what the rules are, but they work.

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Every morning from my cab I am privy to the most orderly biking system in the universe, I am certain. You can see whole families together merily biking away on their way to work/school…politely waiting for the bikes’ green light.

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It often rains in Copenhagen so while few wear a helmet, they often wear some sort of rainproof coat.

The Danes are the descendants of the Vikings, those same Vikings that conqued Northern Europe and, reportedly, sailed across the Atlantic all the way to Canada. The culture in modern Denmark reflects, to a certain extent, their ancestral spartan ways. The Danes are raised in a culture that praises kinship, coorperation and equality, in a very fundamental way. Everyone is equal, in a minimalist, modest fashion. No-one can be better than anyone else. The Janteloven (Jante Law) rules all social behaviour, and society and culture draw roots from this pattern of tribal behaviour which negatively views individual success and achievement, deeming it unseemly and inappropriate. It’s almost the antithesis of the USA. In Denmark the school system runs eminently without punishment or reward, and there is no such thing as marks/grades. Later in life, at work, the company structure is flat and the salary discpepancy between the highest and lowest in the food chain rather small. People pay high taxes, more than 50% of salary in many cases. Social benefits are good, frankly, so good as only the Danish would still go to work. The answer to praise is not ‘thank you’ but ‘it is nothing’.

Consequently, Copenhagen is the capital of a uniform nation of happy equal souls perfectly content with their lot in life. At least in theory. In practice, I don’t know, as I have not apprached the subject with any of my Danish colleagues – probably not the thing to do. However, may I mention that the Danish invariably top the list of ‘most happy nations’, so, at least for the majority, Denmark is a happy happy place.

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As for me…I wish it were sunnier. And that I saw it less frequenly.

….Food for thought: look up the 10 rules of Jante.